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A Few KIND IDEAS

Don't forget to share your act of kindness with us on Twitter @charliespurpose 
using #charlottespurpose or #weekendofkindness ! 
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FREE ACTS OF KINDNESS
  • Give an especially thoughtful compliment.
  • Share an umbrella.
  • Hold the door (or elevator).
  • Leave uplifting messages in sidewalk chalk.
  • List things you no longer need for free on Craigslist or Freecycle.
  • Become an organ donor.
  • Clip coupons to leave next to the matching items in the grocery store. 
  • Pick up litter.
  • Leave a kind note.
  • Play FreeRice.com and feed the hungry. 
  • Hide a kind message in a book at the library or book store.  
  • Let someone go in front of you in line.
  • 'Donate your birthday' to a charity on Facebook. 
  • Donate blood.

KINDNESS TO PARENTS WHO HAVE LOST A CHILD
  • Write a letter to a "loss-family".  Tell them that you are thinking of their baby, and will continue to think of their baby.  
  • Make a dinner, snack or meal for the family.  (Bonus points if it is non-perishable or freezable so they can eat it whenever they are ready!) Consider including paper plates and plastic utensils so they don't even have to do dishes. 
  • Go grocery shopping (or order groceries to be delivered) for a family who has lost a child.  Especially in the early days, it is so very difficult to leave the house.  A delivery of essentials like toilet paper, tissues, milk, eggs, cereal, pet food, etc. can make a huge difference.
  • Donate to our GoFundMe page to raise money for a Cuddle Cot so parents of a stillborn have time to say goodbye.
  • Make a care package for a loss-family that you can donate to the local labor and delivery unit.  Consider including a condolence letter, memorial items like a footprint mold kit, a small piece of memorial jewelry, a glass ornament that a hospital bracelet could be placed into, something to cuddle (like a teddy bear), and something special for the baby to wear.
  • Donate to causes that provide memorial items for loss-parents free of charge.  Here are a few:
                        Molly Bears                                            The Cooper Project                                      
                        Held Your Whole Life                           Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep                   
                        Healing Embrace                                   Project B.E.A.R.
  • Text, "How are you today?" or "I love you", or "I'm thinking about you today" every day for as long as you can.
  • Mail a card on their baby's birthday each year.  
  • Remember their baby in your holiday cards, mother's day messages, and  other correspondence.  

KINDNESS TO A FRIEND, COWORKER, OR FAMILY MEMBER
  • Surprise them with a letter or postcard in the mail.
  • Make a list of the things that you love about them.
  • Share a book or piece of music that you think they'll like.  
  • Send your boss an email about a coworker's hard work. 
  • Send a care package.
  • Plan a surprise meal, outing, or event.
  • Surprise your coworker with a coffee.

KINDNESS TO YOUR COMMUNITY
  • Pay off an overdue lunch bill at a local school. 
  • Visit an elderly neighbor to talk, have a meal, or do a puzzle. 
  • Write a thank you to your teacher, mail carrier, bus driver, coach, etc. 
  • Join the Big Brother, Big Sister program and mentor a child. 
  • Leave a pack of baby wipes at a changing station. 
  • Bring donuts to firefighters, police, etc.
  • Leave a letter for your mail carrier with a hand warmer on a chilly day.  
  • Bring a cold drink to a garbage collector on a hot day.  
  • Bring flowers to a nursing home.
  • Shovel snow for a neighbor.
  • Rake leaves or assist with yard work for a neighbor.
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KINDNESS TO ANIMALS & THE EARTH
  • Volunteer  at a shelter.
  • Plant a tree.
  • Pick up litter. 
  • Donate pet food to a local animal shelter.
  • Use reusable grocery bags.
  • Walk, bike, or carpool when you can. 
  • Organize a cleanup day at your favorite park.
  • Adopt an endangered animal.
  • Fill a bird feeder with native seed
  • Donate blankets and towels to a local animal shelter.
KINDNESS TO STRANGERS
  • Hold the door (or elevator).
  • Hide a kind message or four leaf clover in a book at the library.
  • Double your tip.
  • Donate to a GoFundMe campaign for a worthy cause.  Charlotte's Purpose is raising money for a Cuddle Cot to donate to our local hospital so that families of stillborn babies may have a few more precious moments with their child.  To donate to our campaign, click here.
  • Serve at and/or donate to a soup kitchen or homeless shelter.
  • Leave a positive comment on a blog or posting that you appreciated/enjoyed.
  • Say "Hello, have a wonderful day!"
  • Donate your ponytail to Locks of Love. 
  • Prepare bags to give to the homeless: warm gloves, warm hat, socks, toiletries, snacks, & information about local resources available
  • Smile!
  • Sign up to be an organ donor.  
  • Donate to a clothing drive or thrift store. 
  • Collect food for and/or work at a food bank.
  • Talk to a manager about excellent service.
  • Put something you don't need on Craigslist for free. 
  • Consider donating your leftover Metro card to help those experiencing homelessness or living with limited means.  Mail Metro cards to:
                           Pathways to Housing DC
                                Attn: Development
                             101 Q Street NE, Suite G
                             Washington, DC 20002

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KINDNESS TO CHILDREN
  • Leave bubbles at a park or playground.
  • Pay off an overdue lunch bill at a local school.
  • Write a kind message on a napkin in their lunch. 
  • Donate coloring books and crayons to a children's hospital
  • Leave a kind note on a post it in their locker.
  • Set aside a day to ‘Love bomb’ a child you know, a day when it’s all about them and they get some choice in your adventures! (idea by Frankie Brunker)

KINDNESS BY CHILDREN
  • Write a thank you to your parents, grandparents, coach, teacher, etc. 
  • Help with a chore. 
  • Invite someone new to play or sit with you.
  • Give a genuine compliment about a trait that you admire in someone.
  • Talk about charity and encourage them to donate some belongings (outgrown clothes, toys, books) or to
  • Set up a yard sale or lemonade stand to raise money for a good cause (ideas by Frankie Brunker and JT)
  • Bake some cookies for a neighbour or friend (idea by Frankie Brunker)


KINDNESS TO YOURSELF 

  • Take a tea break (or coffee break, or milkshake break...)!
  • Try out some new Yoga poses (Try this page that has poses listed by benefit, including Yoga for Insomnia, Yoga for Calm, and Yoga for Stress).
  • Drink more water.
  • Go for a walk, hike, run, jog, swim, or paddle!
  • Cuddle with a favorite pet.
  • Set an attainable goal, then crush it!
  • Try something new.  Painting? Rowing? Crocheting? Karate?  
  • Start a gratitude journal & record one thing you are grateful for each day.
  • Clear the clutter.  Choose a specific place in your home to organize, clean, and maybe even donate "junk" from.  
  • Do something that will make you laugh.  Try reading cartoons or watching a favorite stand up artist.  Click here to find out why laughter is so good for you!
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  • Read & View
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    • The Beautiful Before (Poetry)
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    • Grief Quote Gallery
    • Book Club
    • Submit a Post, Story, Poem, Artwork
  • Grief Resources
    • For the Mother >
      • Labor & Delivery
      • Saying Goodbye
      • Maternity leave with no baby
      • Build a Support Network
      • Journal
      • Music for Healing
      • Embrace Your Inner Artist
      • Get Active
      • Remembering Your Baby
      • Read About Grief & Healing
      • Become a Support for Others
      • Pregnancy After Loss
    • For the Father/Partner >
      • Build a Network
      • Journaling
      • Embrace Art
      • Find Ways to Remember Baby (F/P)
      • Read More About Grief & Healing
    • For the sibling >
      • A child grieves a different loss
      • Healthy Grief, Strange Behavior
      • Grief Patterns By Age
      • Rules of Parenting a Grieving Child
      • Children's Books & Resources
    • For the Grandparent
    • For Caregivers & Medical Staff
    • How to Support a grieving friend >
      • What is stillbirth?
      • What do I say or do?
      • When does grief end?
  • Memorial Planning
    • Components
    • Readings
    • Music
    • Program Templates
    • Other Ways to Remember your baby
    • Financial Assistance
  • Weekend of Kindness
    • Weekend of Kindness 2023
    • PROJECTS WE'RE PROUD OF
    • JOIN THE KINDNESS CREW
    • A FEW KIND IDEAS
  • Wrapped in Love Project
    • Project Wish List
    • Resources for Sewists
    • Project Gallery
    • Donate a Dress
    • Volunteer to Sew
  • Store